On December 8th my kiddos did not have too much trouble locating Scout. He was on the hutch in our dining room, tucked on top of a popcorn box. The box was surrounded by popcorn and candy. It was a Friday, so Scout planned some family fun for the evening. He set up a popcorn bar and movie night. There were serving boxes, two kinds of popcorn and mix-ins. The mix-ins for the popcorn included Mini M&Ms, Reese’s pieces and raisinets. There were so many options for mix-ins, but our elf thought we would like those the most.
Scout had some signs with him to explain what we were to do. Click here to find and print the signs that he had. The signs our elf had were attached to colorful paper straws. Those straws were tucked under his arm, placed inside the plastic popcorn serving boxes and shoved inside the lid of a cardboard box.
Popcorn treat
The boys were so excited to finish dinner and enjoy the special treat from Scout. After dinner we quickly cleaned up and broke into our snack. Each kiddo picked out what popcorn they wanted. The options were plain, butter and kettle corn. We popped some corn and filled the serving boxes almost full. Everyone chose their mix-ins. My picky eater passed on the chocolate-covered raisins. Of course, my middle son had to have some of everything. Then, my youngest chose to have a bit of everything, as well. However, he requested extra mix-ins on the side.
Movie choice
Scout did not bring a movie. He did not bring any suggestions for what to watch, either. We decided to let the boys choose what movie to see while enjoying the yummy popcorn mixture. Of course, we had them chose from the Christmas movie options. “The Polar Express” was the movie of choice agreed on by all three of my kiddos.
“Always be joyful. Never stop praying. Be thankful i all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus.” (1 Thessalonians 5:16-18, NLT)
Painting or dyeing eggs around Easter is a popular activity. Simple or extravagant, many eggs are decorated for this holiday. When I was growing up I did not paint wooden eggs. I did, however, color real eggs a number of ways.
Types of Eggs
One way to decorate eggs was to use a blown egg. A blown egg is a real egg with the inside cleaned out. For those eggs, we used acrylic paint and a cotton swab as a brush. They are very fragile but can last for many years, if handled with care. My mom has some that are 25 or more years old!
Another type of egg decorating uses hard boiled eggs. However, hard boiled eggs need to be refrigerated shortly after being boiled. To decorate those, we would use a mixture of color tablets, vinegar and water. The eggs would be submerged into the mixture up to five minutes. When removed and dried, the eggs were dyed whatever color the mixture was. We used a clear crayon to draw crosses or designs or to write a name. The dye resisted the crayon marks. Therefore, whatever was drawn on the egg would show up.
Choosing Wooden Eggs
My kids don’t all enjoy eating hard boiled eggs. Therefore, we don’t make too many of them, otherwise we would end up wasting many eggs. Also, my kids are not ready for blown eggs. They are not gentle enough and would crack the fragile eggs. I decided to begin a new tradition with our family. They decorate wooden eggs. Every year they each paint one egg. The wooden eggs last for a very long time. Also, they are not fragile and easily broken like the blown eggs. My boys each have their own collection of painted wooden eggs.
Decorating Wooden Eggs
I purchase wooden eggs from a craft store, such as JoAnn Fabrics. If the base of the egg is round my husband sands it down. My boys use acrylic paint, either matte or gloss. After they are finished painting we put all three eggs on a paper plate to dry. After about 30 minutes I pick up each egg then set it back down on the plate. That is to make sure it does not stick to the plate while it is drying.
When the paint is completely dry, in about 24 to 48 hours, I coat each egg completely in mod podge. I like to use some with a gloss finish. Then, when that is completely dry, I use a permanent marker to write their name and the year on the bottom of the egg. Sometime after Easter we put the wooden eggs into cardboard egg cartons for storage. Each year my kids are eager to look at their eggs from the previous years. I like to see their creativity and how they change each year. None of the eggs are exactly the same. Their preferences in colors and designs change year after year.
“The next day, the news that Jesus was on the way to Jerusalem swept through the city. A large crowd of Passover visitors took palm branches and went down the road to meet him. They shouted, ‘Praise God! Blessings on the one who comes in the name of the LORD! Hail to the King of Israel!” (John 12:12-13, NLT)
We believe the reason to celebrate Christmas centers around the birth of Jesus Christ. The nativity is a representation of that. On December 6th, Scout had found a clever spot to hide. This was not where my kids would have looked. They never would have guessed that he would be visiting one of our nativity sets. Along with him, he left a note mentioning to our family how the nativity represents the meaning of Christmas. That meaning, he said, is the most important of all. This hiding spot and note did encourage some dialog with my kiddos. For instance, they asked some questions about nativity.
The Note from Scout:
GREETINGS, FAMILY!
I AM ENJOYING MY TIME WITH YOU. THERE ARE SO MANY TRADITIONS, MEANINGS AND ACTIVITIES WITH THIS TIME OF YEAR. REMEMBER ALWAYS THAT THIS, RIGHT HERE, IS THE MOST IMPORTANT PART. GOD SENT HIS SON, JESUS, TO THE EARTH AS A BABY. CHRISTMAS IS A TIME TO CELEBRATE HIS BIRTH. FROM LUKE 2 IN THE NEW LIVING TRANSLATION BIBLE:
7 She gave birth to her firstborn son. She wrapped him snugly in strips of cloth and laid him in a manger, because there was no lodging available for them.8 That night there were shepherds staying in the fields nearby, guarding their flocks of sheep. 9 Suddenly, an angel of the Lord appeared among them, and the radiance of the Lord’s glory surrounded them. They were terrified, 10 but the angel reassured them. “Don’t be afraid!” he said. “I bring you good news that will bring great joy to all people.
11 The Savior—yes, the Messiah, the Lord—has been born today in Bethlehem, the city of David! 12 And you will recognize him by this sign: You will find a baby wrapped snugly in strips of cloth, lying in a manger.”13 Suddenly, the angel was joined by a vast host of others—the armies of heaven—praising God and saying,
14 “Glory to God in highest heaven, and peace on earth to those with whom God is pleased.”15 When the angels had returned to heaven, the shepherds said to each other, “Let’s go to Bethlehem! Let’s see this thing that has happened, which the Lord has told us about.”16 They hurried to the village and found Mary and Joseph. And there was the baby, lying in the manger.
17 After seeing him, the shepherds told everyone what had happened and what the angel had said to them about this child. 18 All who heard the shepherds’ story were astonished, 19 but Mary kept all these things in her heart and thought about them often. 20 The shepherds went back to their flocks, glorifying and praising God for all they had heard and seen. It was just as the angel had told them.
I DO LOVE IMAGINING THAT WHEN I READ IT. CHRISTMAS IS WONDERFUL FOR MANY REASONS, BUT THIS IS THE BEST AND MOST IMPORTANT REASON. REMEMBER THAT ALWAYS!
-SCOUT
“After this interview the wise men went their way. And the star they had seen in the east guided them to Bethlehem. It went ahead of them and stopped over the place where the child was. When they saw the star, they were filled with joy! They entered the house and saw the child with his mother, Mary, and they bowed down and worshiped him. Then they opened their treasure chests and gave him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh. When it was time to leave, they returned to their own country by another route, for God had warned them in a dream not to return to Herod.” (Matthew 2:9-12, NLT)
The Elf on the Shelf was a phrase I had heard shortly before my oldest son was born. I did not look into it at all and had no desire to do this activity. If you are familiar with the Elf on the Shelf, you know having one can be as simple or as involved as you make it. Personally, I did not want to add another activity to the already busy month of December. Other kids talked about their Elf on the Shelf. I saw posts of the shenanigans of friends’ elves.
Our Intro to The Elf on the Shelf
My oldest son came home from pre-school one day. He was talking all about their classroom’s Elf on the Shelf. After hearing his excitement, I took notice when others shared ideas and photos about their Elf on the Shelf’s daily activities. My interest began to grow and I was a little open-minded about this activity.
That time of Year
One year we made our annual visit to see a particular Santa Claus. This was pre-COVID, so there was no social distancing. In the few years after COVID, before seeing this Santa, it is required to schedule the visit. At the time of our early visits we did not have to sign up for a certain day and time to go. Therefore, the line was long, mostly in the evening.
To pass the time one parent would usually stand in line while the other parent took the kids around to the different activities. One activity was making a craft. That usually included some type of ornament for the Christmas tree. Another thing to do was to build with Lincoln Logs. My two older kiddos competed against each other to see who could build the tallest tower without it falling down. My oldest son enjoyed building the most.
Kids could do target practice with archery and shooting. There was also a kinetic sand station. My middle son enjoyed all that there was to do, but mostly playing in the Kinetic sand. Many children also enjoyed watching the large fish in the big tank. Of course, there was also the fun of climbing on the boats and ATVs. Finally, kids could color while watching a movie.
As I stood in line I watched part of the movie, which was The Elf on the Shelf. Through watching some of that I was able to gain some additional insight into the story of the Elf on the Shelf. I was not completely focused on the movie, but caught bits and pieces of it.
The Movie’s Plot
The scout elves are sent by Santa to specific families. In the movie’s plot, a certain scout elf was sent to a specific family because the oldest child was beginning to not believe in Santa. The scout elf was tasked with trying to get the child to believe in Santa again, like he did when he was younger. As the movie went on, I learned a few details. The family gives the elf its name. That gives the elf its Christmas magic to fly to and from the North Pole every day. No one is permitted to touch the elf or it loses its magic and can’t fly back to the North Pole. When the elf gets back to the North Pole it must stay there in sick bay until it regains strength.
The Elf’s Task
The Elf on the Shelf flies to the North Pole each night to give reports to Santa about the family. Then, before the family wakes up, it flies back to the place where the family is. The elf is in a new spot every day and the kids get to search for it. In the movie the Elves on the Shelf got to know their family members and solved problems for them.
Set Rules/Specifics Early On
The Elf on the Shelf has become something a little different. It shows up either just after Thanksgiving or on December 1st. He or she still needs to be named by the family to gain “magic.” No one is permitted to touch the Elf on the Shelf or it loses that magic. Some parents adopt one or more loopholes for some of the rules. For example, some decide that adults can touch the elf to move it; adults can touch with oven mitts; or parents can pick up the Elf on the Shelf with tongs, if necessary.
It is best to set the rules about touching the elf early on. It would be a sad day for your child to see you pick up the elf with oven mitts on, not being aware that it was alright. Another idea for people touching the elf is for the last day he or she are with you. The kids are allowed to give a very gentle hug to say goodbye until the next year.
Elf Behavior
Another thing about the Elf on the Shelf is that some of the elves get up to mischief. Some elves make lots of messes to try to be funny. They will also get themselves into a predicament. One example I have seen of Elf on the Shelf mischief is getting into a snowball fight with other toys. Another one is spilling flour on the floor and leaving tiny white footprints around the room. I was not interested in cleaning up after an elf and putting that on my ‘to do’ list. Sometimes it is also used as a scare tactic to get children to behave. I was not interested in that, either.
Beginning with an elf
Over the last few years my two oldest kiddos experienced the Elf on the Shelf in their classrooms. They were excited to share the elf’s names and what it was up to on a daily basis. One evening in November my husband and I were shopping by ourselves. The Elf on the Shelf kits were conveniently placed on a shelf at many adult’s eye level. My husband and I had not discussed getting one, but decided just then to purchase one. There were so many options to choose from. We could choose gender and skin color. Because we have boys we decided to get a boy elf, as well. We took him home and hid him until it was time for him to begin his assignment. It was time for my creativity to shine.
Also, look on The Elf on the Shelf website for more ideas, crafts, free printables and more!
Hidden in the tree
Hidden in the dining room light
Accidentally tried dog treats, thinking they were cookies
Brought his favorite cookies
Hidden among stuffies
Hidden in the nativity scene
Put bows on bedroom doors
Brought treats for a movie night
Christmas Scrabble board
Build with gumdrops and toothpicks
Brought slingshot (indoor snowball fight)
Brought Rice Crispy treat ingredients
Candy cane hunt
Gift-wrapped kitchen cabinets and drawers
Disguised as a Poinsettia plant
Eggcellent message
Made and hung up snowflakes throughout our home
Made a snowman out of clean socks
Candy food groups
Brought Christmas trivia cards
Toilet paper snowman
Hidden in a Christmas stocking
Zipline into tree
Toy donation basket
Made a gingerbread house
Inside a snowglobe
Melted snowman
Brought Christmas stampers and “Peas on Earth” riddle cards
Marshmallows and toothpicks to make snowmen
Gummy bear tree, hidden with bear stuffies
Make origami stars
Felt danish hearts with candy inside
Yummy tree cakes
“Listen to the words of the wise; apply your heart to my instruction. For it is good to keep these sayings in your heart and always ready on you lips.” (Proverbs 22:17 & 18, NLT)
Door hearts are simply what they sound like. They are paper hearts that I put on my family’s bedroom doors. I write something kind about each person each evening on the heart. One heart is added to the door each evening.
Small versus large Door Hearts
Most of the times I have done door hearts I have used one small heart per day. Once or twice I have used a single larger heart for the whole month. My kids seem to enjoy the smaller hearts better. Each morning they open their bedroom doors and look for the newest heart. With the larger hearts, my kids became not as interested. They were still eager to see what I wrote, but did not have to search for the new message. They enjoy not only the sentiment, but also the search.
What to use for Door Hearts
To make the door hearts, I used some cardstock that I already had. Examples of paper colors are tan, pale pink, light purple, and mint green. Any light colored paper works, so that the writing is clearly visible. My cricut paper cutting machine made quick work of making many hearts in a short amount of time. If a cricut and a heart cartridge are not available, you could purchase some online, instead.
The search term to use is “scalloped paper hearts” or “heart hang tags.” The correct size is around 2 inches. I made and purchased enough for each person in my family to have enough for every day of the month. You can do that, or only put them up until Valentine’s Day. When I used a large heart, I just purchased some paper heart doilies from the Dollar Store in January. For those, I only purchased 1 per family member.
What to write on the Door Hearts
Any number of words or phrases can be written on each heart. For example, I wrote a positive action that was completed. This included being kind to a specific person; doing chores without being asked; doing well on school work or some other positive activity. Another topic I wrote about was physical. An example of this was how I liked their hugs; they have a nice smile; their outfit was nice on them and anything else positive about them. Sometimes I wrote a scripture verse to encourage them.
I pray for my family to always know they are loved and that my words are reaffirming to them. Positive words are usually better than negative. One of my kids’ love languages is words of affirmation. This activity of writing door hearts blesses him and shows him even more love. My other family members feel loved and blessed by this, as well. Sometimes my husband writes a door heart for me. He doesn’t always remember to do it, but I appreciate it very much when he does!
“Oh, the joys of those who do not follow the advice of the wicked, or stand around with sinners, or join in with mockers. But they delight in the law of the LORD, meditating on it day and night. They are like trees planted along the riverbank, bearing fruit each season. Their leaves never wither, and they prosper in all they do. But not the wicked! They are like worthless chaff, scattered by the wind. They will be condemned at the time of judgement. Sinners will have no place among the godly. For the LORD watches over the path of the godly, but the path of the wicked leads to destruction.” (Psalms 1:1-6, NLT)
Pomanders are a holiday tradition for many people. Historically, they were used in Europe to keep illnesses at bay. They were also used to combat foul smells. Pomanders are recorded in America in the 1700s to mask bad smells. They eventually became popular decorations during the holidays in homes across America.
Gather materials
An orange or two, a bottle of whole cloves, a container of cinnamon, scissors, ribbon, a thumb tack and toothpicks.
Add ribbon
If the pomander is to be hung, wrap ribbon around the orange.
Wrapped orange
I chose a thinner ribbon, so I was able to wrap it a few times. If using a wider ribbon, wrap only twice or as desired.
Scents and Memories
I recently read about pomanders and the festive tradition. Though they had never been a part of my Christmas memories, I decided to try them out to see how my family would like the scent.
Many people associate smells to memories. For example, the smell of Easter lilies brings to mind going to church wearing a white straw hat, white gloves and a pretty little Easter dress. The whole memory comes to mind with one whiff of the sweet flower. Another example for me is the smell of certain candles. My mom liked to burn Yankee Candle‘s Home Sweet Home candle often when I was growing up. The combined scent of apples, cinnamon, nutmeg, cherry and juniper berry brings to mind memories from the home I grew up in.
Yet another smell that stirs up association is that of fresh cut grass. It is a signal in my mind that the growing season is upon us. As in, Spring has come. Fresh cut grass also brings to mind thoughts of traveling around locally in the Summer with my car windows rolled down. (Yes, rolled down, with a hand crank).
Thumb Tack
Using a thumb tack helps to keep the ribbon in place.
Toothpick
It is not absolutely necessary to use a toothpick, but it does help. If desired, use a toothpick to poke holes in the orange peel before adding the cloves. They can be a little spikey and hurt the finger tips.
Add the cloves
Add the whole cloves right into the orange peel, in the premade holes.
Scent Categories
There are many more scents that bring to mind various memories. One example is food smells. That would include pot roast in the crock pot, candy canes, funnel cake, buttered popcorn, fresh apples and, from growing up near the sweetest place on Earth, chocolate. Another example is environmental or nature smells. Some of these include Fall leaves, rain in the woods, lightening bugs, a limestone creek bed running through a wooded area, mud and evergreen trees. Yet one more group of scents is what I think of as man-made. Some of these include the smell of school bus fumes, perfume, various candle scents, various make-up, newspapers and many more.
Design
The cloves can have a pattern or design.
Random
The cloves can be put into the orange peel randomly.
Cinnamon
After all of the cloves are in place, you can roll the whole thing in cinnamon, if desired.
Pomanders’ Scent
Pomanders bring warm memories to many people. The citrus used is oranges, lemons or limes. Although, oranges are most popular. The orange is sweet, fresh and juicy. Often times citrus, especially lemon, is used to energize or enliven someone. On the other hand, whole cloves have a spicy and sweet scent that is warm and woodsy. Piercing the orange peel enhances its scent. When the cloves are added, the mixture is cozy, happy, warm and seasonal.
If desired, roll the finished pomander in ground cinnamon for an added warm fragrance. The cinnamon is also beneficial in preventing mold from forming on the orange. Mold can form depending on the temperature, humidity, lighting and air flow. If that does occur, the mold defeats the purpose of a cozy smell and instead offers a musty, earthy scent (and not in a good way). As the orange dries, the citrus scent gets even stronger.
Yield: 1 pomander
Make Fragrant Pomanders
Fragrant pomanders made with an orange and whole cloves.
Prep Time5 minutes
Active Time30 minutes
Total Time35 minutes
Materials
1 orange
1 bottle whole cloves
toothpick
ribbon (o[ptional)
thumb tack (optional)
cinnamon (optional)
Instructions
If desired, add ribbon to the orange.
With the toothpick, poke small holes into the orange peel. Create a pattern, shapes or design; or poke holes randomly.
Push a whole clove into each toothpick hole.
After all of the holes are filled, as few or as many as you desire, roll the whole thing in cinnamon. Tap the excess cinnamon off.
Tie the ribbon into a bow or loop and hang it on the tree or somewhere else. If there is no ribbon, add the finished pomander to a decorative plate, bowl or basket with other seasonal decorations.
Notes
The purpose of the ribbon is to make a loop to hang the pomander. Additionally, the ribbon can be used for decoration. Wrap it around fully at least twice to make it secure. Some instructions I have read suggest drying the whole thing out in the oven. I don't think that is necessary. It takes away from enjoying the scent as the orange naturally dries.
This project is very simple to do. My three-year old made one with very little help from me. I just attached the ribbon around the orange for him. Then he had fun poking holes and pushing the cloves into the holes. When it was finished he was so proud to show his daddy what he made.
I hung them on our tree. If I make them again (which I probably will) I will use smaller oranges to hang on the tree. The larger oranges will be better in a bowl or on a plate or other decorative holder. The larger oranges are a little heavy for some of the branches. Smaller ones would work better.
I have read that cloves can be toxic to dogs, only in large quantities and in oil or powder form. However, cloves in any form can be toxic to cats. Of course, that is also in large quantities. Be careful if you have cats, especially if the pomanders are placed on a surface the cats can reach.
“4 But God is so rich in mercy, and he loved us so much, 5 that even though we were dead because of our sins, he gave us life when he raised Christ from the dead. (It is only by God’s grace that you have been saved!)” (Ephesians 2:4,5 NLT)
Christmas is a wonderful time of year. The Christmas card exchanges are one activity to share with others. Some people send photo Christmas cards. Other people write up many cards for those on their address list. Still others write up a letter to share with those far and wide. Even more send a previously prepared email or put a message on their Facebook page to bring Christmas blessings to anyone they have ever met.
Activities
There are many things to celebrate and activities to do and to be caught up into this time of year. On one hand, we want our children to have many enjoyable experiences. On the other hand, we want them to be able to take time to really enjoy the activities we participate in. Certainly, we do not want for them to be overwhelmed with the busyness. That being said, we find it important to pick and choose what activities we do.
I have never been all about Santa. We take our kiddos to see Santa at the same mall every year. Many Christmas movies that we watch are about him or have him in it. I am not against the idea of Santa. Christmas is about so much more. In our family we celebrate Jesus’ birth. We exchange gifts to remember that Jesus is the best gift that we have ever received. Also, to celebrate a time of giving and wonder.
A Christmas Card for family
Sending and giving a Christmas card is a kind gesture during Christmas. I incorporated this idea of a Christmas card into an activity that we do as a family during the month of December. I go to the store and either purchase 5 individual cards or a pack of Christmas cards. Beginning on December 1st and going until December 31st we do a card for each family member. At the beginning of the month, or, really, at the end of November, I have each family member choose which card they like best. Then I put their name on the top of the outside of the Christmas card. Every evening we go around and say something positive about each person.
For example, there is a card for my husband. When we get to his card, we each say something that we love about him. That includes something we like about his character, or it could mean something that we saw him doing that is positive. For example, something he might have done that day. Then there is a card for each of my children and one for me, as well. We do the same for each card and recipient. Then, at the end of December I hand each card to its owner, or addressee.
Kind words from family members is such a great gift. This is especially true for the people in my life who have a love language of words of affirmation. (If you are unfamiliar with ‘love language,’ I encourage you to familiarize yourself with “The 5 Love Languages,” by Gary Chapman).
“I pray that God, the source of hope, will fill you completely with joy and peace because you trust in him. Then you will overflow with confident hope through the power of the Holy Spirit.” (Romans 15:13, NLT)
A thankful pumpkin is something that my family works on during the month of November. November in Pennsylvania is filled with many things “Fall.” One of those things includes “peeping” the changing colors of leaves on trees. That means, if you live or travel near deciduous trees, admiring the beauty of the flora kaleidoscope. Mountain areas and state forests are popular places for that.
Tastes to be Thankful for
Another November Fall thing is the many tastes. Popular ones include apple cider and pumpkin spice. Other favorite flavors are caramel apple and candy apple. Then there is homemade pumpkin pie or homemade apple pie. Fall certainly has some comforting flavors and scents.
Thanksgiving
Near the end of the month we celebrate the holiday, Thanksgiving. Besides football, a big parade, turkey and pumpkin pie, Thanksgiving is a time to be thankful. Really, we should be thankful always. However, Thanksgiving is when we are reminded of this.
We encourage our boys to be grateful and show appreciation when someone does something for them. They are reminded to “say thank you” when given a gift. What a blessing it is when they don’t need to be reminded to be thankful. That seems to happen more often than not.
Thankful Pumpkin
For our family, the whole month of November is also a time for the ‘Thankful pumpkin.’ Beginning in 2018, we have enjoyed this activity. Every night after dinner we go around the table and say one thing that we are thankful for from that day. We encourage the boys to say something different every night. With a fine sharpie, I write what each person says. It reminds us how truly blessed we are.
This month-long activity is simple to do and gets kids to realize there is so much to appreciate every day. Additionally, the supplies needed for this activity are minimal. I use a fine tip sharpie marker to write on the pumpkin. For the pumpkin, I purchase a 6-8 inch foam craft pumpkin. Near the end of October they can be found in many craft stores. Also, foam craft pumpkins can be found in many stores that have Fall decorations.
I hope you enjoy this activity. Also, I hope we can look back over the years and realize how very blessed we are.
“Since everything God created is good, we should not reject any of it but receive it with thanks. For we know it is made acceptable by the word of God and prayer.”(1 Timothy 4:4-5, NLT)